[QUOTE="Anne, post: 26431, member: 6282"]Well since my cat left me too soon, I honestly figured I would never have another and since getting another dog bringing the number to four, me getting another cats feels like a very distant thing. Still, I keep thinking that I would never find another like my Twinkle and while I don't know for sure what breed he was I think I would constantly be comparing or at least thinking I want a cat that looks like him. Here in my country I don't know we have a whole long list of breeds and at the end of the day it's going to be about personality and a connection if it happens again.[/QUOTE] I hope someday Anne you will get to the point where you can find another kitty to love. You were such a good mom to Twinkle and you have so much love that another cat would be so lucky to be welcomed into your home. There are so many cats out there who need a loving home and in time you may be able to make a different in another kitty's life. You will know when the time is right and when you have met that special one.